All they can do is repeat the same useless advice they read from some other "expert" and HOPE that it will work for you. It was only after I went PAST all that useless "common advice" and started learning from other more I took the techniques I learned about and tested them out on myself in the real world. I slowly discovered more of the golden useful ideas... and I know none of these "accomplishments" are even that impressive.
I could only express myself around my brother and a couple of guys I knew really well.
But around other people, I automatically became quiet and awkward.
What I've discovered is that there are certain "triggers" that make people immediately see something (or someone) as being popular.
This is how some politicians become famous quickly, and why some products are known by almost everyone.
It's a course that contains the techniques I've developed over the years to help literally thousands of shy and socially anxious people all over the world.